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Jennifer Trainor's avatar

Really great analogy! I relate on all the levels you describe except for great friends. That has been a challenge to find supportive relationships beyond my therapist and my dog, but I soldier on, have a good cry, do all the things that help keep my bucket from the danger zone. Who knew getting sober was the easy part? Emotional sobriety has been kicking my ass but I’m fighting back because I had the first glimmer of hope that maybe it’s not that there’s anything so wrong with me, it’s my messed up attachment style that I have to relearn and high sensitivity that so have to manage in this very harsh world. Phew! Good to know there are others out there healing and sharing. It helps immensely for the connection part of things. Thank you!

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Moorea Maguire's avatar

Thanks for this very useful metaphor!

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